to give and to receive

I never feel more given to
than when you take from me – 
when you understand the joy I feel
 giving to you.
And you know my giving isn’t done
 to put you in my debt,
but because I want to live the love
 I feel for you.
To receive with grace
may be the greatest giving.
There’s no way I can separate
 the two.
When you give to me, 
I give you my receiving.
When you take from me, I feel so
 given to.